Been dating for 3 years
How are you supposed to lasso that magical unicorn before it flies away?With Valentines Day coming upon us, I’ve updated this earlier post to make it fifteen needed questions you need to ask you and your dating relationship.Despite my better judgment, the last time that we went through this, I had an affair with a co-worker. I didn't have the affair because of the lack of intimacy but because of the lack of emotional connection and commitment. Since there seems to be a laundry list of relationship issues, and sexual issues are often rooted in relationship problems even if its not obvious, I would strongly urge you two to go for counseling.He found out and long story short, we solved our issues. I don't think that our lack of sex is due to the affair that I had cause we had that issue before I ever did that. Its possible that the sexual problem is all being caused by a psychological problem only he is burdened with, but its just as likely, more likely in fact, that its rooted in your relationship.
Although they have never been seen together, it is believed that the two have been dating for three years.
In marriage you begin to rub off on each other, subtly taking on traits and characteristics of the other.
Does this thought excite you or does it make you feel like you just digested a can of the before mentioned Play-Doh? And you need to have your own identity beyond your spouse. If you don’t want to become like the person you’re dating, should you be dating?
The thing is, sex to me is important in a relationship. There are other issues in our relationship but this is a big one. And those roots seem awfully twisted, especially as there was an affair in the middle.
So the only way that I see of you two getting to the bottom of this situation and fixing your relationship, and then your sex life, is by getting professional help.
We had this issue before, and he confessed that he had problems when it came to that department. I assured him time and time again that this was okay and we can work together. I've spoken to him about it and his explanation is that he is too stressed and tired.